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I think with all the backlash and vitriol Tamra is receiving, it is a build-up over her past seasons. Combined, we are also in a different era now in reality tv. What may have been acceptable and entertaining back then is offensive and painful now. People overall are much more sensitive with things. We know villains are an integral part of the show, but many also like to see villains grow and evolve. The old formula doesn’t cut it anymore. We saw with season 8 of rhop and the outrage reception to it. Rhonj season 14, having the most toxic season ever, they couldn’t even do a reunion. Their hashtag on Twitter is still unhinged! Now everyone is waiting to see if they’re coming back for season 15.

Now we’re at season 18 of rhoc, where it looked like this was supposed to be a Shannon takedown/breakdown season. She had a dui, he ex boyfriend is suing her. To add insult to injury, they bring on her ex-boyfriend, new fiance, former cast member, who’s decided to be his mouthpiece and attack dog to go at Shannon every chance she got. Then, to make matters even worse, Tamra, who was supposed to be her friend, decided to join in kicking Shannon while she’s down, terrorizing her at every turn.

The Shannon takedown was a fail because 1, she’s a fan favorite because she’s one of the housewives that’s never been afraid to show vulnerability and transparency with her life, whether being good or bad. And 2, she took accountability and responsibility right out the gate for her DUI. So, the constant gangups weren’t needed. It just made Shannon more loved, and Tamra more hated.

Also to add Tamra was very involved in the drama with rhonj season 14 toxicity due to her close friendship to Margaret. She used her podcast to spew venom towards the ones she didn’t like. So by the time rhoc newseason started, some were annoyed with her. Then, watching her antics on season 18 with Shannon has turned the majority off with her.

I think now she may have truly sealed her fate by now saying she’s been diagnosed on the spectrum. She has pissed so many people off. They are still going in on her. I want to know who convinced her to get on her podcast and say this in the first place 😫

#rhoc🍊

My thoughts on this: Sadly this is a situation that could’ve been avoided. But many have allowed the lure of fame, money, clout and notoriety to get to them.

There are many aspiring to be the next Wendy Williams, and there will never be another. What made Wendy who she is today, is due to her coming out at a time where social media and the internet was nearly non existent. The celebrity world and political world was very inclusive. You had to be somebody to gain access to either group. Back in the day, our exclusives came from waiting on celebs to sit down with Oprah, Diane Sawyer or Barbara Walters to tell us their scandals. And the interviews overall was PR to an extent.

Wendy stood out because she was the opposite of them. She always exposed the tea (good or bad) but she wasn’t just lying on people, just because. She didn’t befriend celebs because she had no loyalty to them. If you were A-List or Z-list and she had something on you, she was going to tell it. Her receipts overall were facts. She also came out during a time, where her market didn’t exist, which is how she became the queen of pop culture. Now, the bloggingsphere has become extremely oversatuated, due to advanced technology and social media. Anyone can expose the tea, drop exclusives, etc. Majority of the bloggers are lying for clicks and views and that’s getting old, since nothing really isn’t original anymore.

What Tasha did to Cardi overall was wrong. I think it’s wrong to constantly go after someone and slander them just because you don’t like them. Never ever build your platform at the expense of bringing down someone else, because once you get to that pedastal, someone is waiting to take you down, just how you did the last person. Karmic energy is nothing to play with. I honestly hope she and other bloggers like her learns from this situation… https://www.instagram.com/alltruetea/tv/CZQHmGyAC0R/?utm_medium=share_sheet

Hello Charisse. Happy new year. It’s a pleasure to sit down and chat with you. I hope you had a great holiday season.
So many of us know, you were the reason rhop was created initially. We are 6 seasons in. Did you think Potomac would make it through 6 seasons?

Charisse: Initially, we didn’t know what we were filming. We were just a female ensemble. After filming the first season, we were put into the housewives franchise, which we were all very ecstatic about. Personally, I was going through my own stuff. My mental state was a little jacked up, when I was a part of the cast during that time. So, I didn’t really think about how far the show would go. I was living day to day, trying to get through one day after the other. But, I did think it was a great cast that can stand with the rest of the other franchises. And to date, I still feel the same way. It’s my favorite housewife show and I still think it has some longevity left. A lot of longevity actually.

I know during your time on rhop, we saw the journey of your marriage and filing for divorce. Are you and your ex amicable?

Charisse: We are cordial now (laughs). Our circles never cross at all. He lives in Charlotte and I live in Maryland. So our paths never cross. The only time now, as of late, where we’ve had to encounter one another for occasions that are related to our children. There will be future occasions where we’ll have to coexist and we’re very cordial. I thought we could be besties after divorce, but that didn’t happen, lol. But we’re cool and I wish nothing but the best for him. I want great things to happen in his life, despite everything I went through. I believe everything happens for a reason and I like to focus on the great things that transpired in our union together. Who knows down the road, maybe, well I don’t know if we’ll be besties, but maybe we can communicate a little more.

Speaking of relationships, are you dating now, since your divorce? Is there anyone special in your life? 

Charisse: Of course I’m dating. I still have a pulse (laughs). I’ve dated 2 people since divorce. At the moment, I’m 0 for 2 in the dating pool. In terms of anyone special in my life, I recently ended my most recent situation. It’s really difficult for me (I think) because of my standards. They are very high and I refuse to lower them and I’m not compromising. So, it’s not easy for me to find someone that I’m actually even attracted to. My friends think I’m a little too picky. But, I’m open to love and I’m not a spring chicken anymore. So, at my age, you know what you want. So, I don’t have to waste my time trying to figure out if this person is for me. You already know if this person is gonna work or not. So right now, I’m back on the market. So if you know anyone, holla 🙂

Would you get married again?

Charisse: If you would’ve asked me that question 2 years ago, I probably would’ve said absolutely not! But, now that I’m healed, absolutely. I am wifey material. I love being married and I loved the concept of marriage. I’m looking forward to being married again. So, I welcome the opportunity to fall in love again and ride off in the sunset with my prince charming and live happily ever after.

We’ve seen many changes in the Potomac group dynamics. Season 1 was about etiquette, Jack and Jill. Then it went to fighting and cyber bullying, etc. What are your thoughts on the changes throughout the franchise?

Charisse: In my heart, I wished the concept of a group of classy women, who went through trials and tribulations together, that fought with their words, was still the primary focus of the show. It’s unfortunate that it went in the direction of people feeling the need to fight. Just as a black woman and looking at the various shows on television, in terms of reality, there aren’t shows that depict black women (I feel) in a favorable light, that’s positive. Unfortunately, it doesn’t reflect how we actually live. So, that’s a little disappointing. Sadly some people think that toxic behavior is what people want to see and that’s where the ratings are. So the thought of prominent black women handling issues with class, style and dignity gets overshadowed. But who knows, hopefully they can somehow incorporate what the initial concept was and find a way to give you drama, but still have class and dignity in the end.

Which of the rhop ladies are you still in contact with?

Charisse: I am still in contact with Gizelle, Robyn, Ashley and Candiace. I’m cool with Wendy. I never met Mia, but she seems like she would be a lot of fun.

With season 7 filming around the corner, could we expect to see you in a scene or 2? 

Charisse: To date, there has been no conversation about me remotely being involved with season 7. My motto is always “never say never”, but to date, there has been no conversations at all about me coming in, appearing or doing anything. So to date, the answer is simply no.

Would you like to go back to the show? Many of us miss you on the show ❤

Charisse: So, I’m a woman of truth and I’m going to be very honest with you. But I have to preface it by saying: I worked very hard to get the ensemble together for rhop and I still consider it my baby. It wasn’t an easy task and It was something I took a lot of pride in. Also when I was on the show, I was just going through too much mentally and emotionally during that time. I just wasn’t Charisse. Now that I’ve healed significantly and the burden has been released off my back, I’m kind of curious if I were to do it again in this life. I always think to myself had the show come to me now as opposed to when it did, what would the outcome have been. How would it be different for me. I personally would like to think it would have been more favorable because I would not have been concerned about my kids going through divorce, etc. That stayed at the top of my head, you know worrying about my children. Now, I’m just free of so much and lighter. So to answer your question, I would have to honestly say yes. If the opportunity arises, I would consider going back.

Are there any special projects you’re working on currently, or for the future?

Charisse: Well, I dibbled a little bit into comedy, then the pandemic happened. Though I don’t consider myself a comedian, I do enjoy being on a stage. I love the stage. I did a show in New York at the great comedy club Carolines and it was great. I also had a bad situation happen, but I have some growth to do in that department. Because of Covid, the tour that I was supposed to do was canceled. Then it got put back on, but I don’t feel comfortable going in and out of these places yet. So, I haven’t ventured out to do more comedy. Also during the pandemic, I completed a real estate class. I still have to take the test, but I think I’ll be a great realtor. It’s gonna be my side hustle. Other than that, my heart has been wide open to opening my own lounge. I’ve been in conversations with several different property owners, exploring the different elements and protocols of opening my own lounge. So, we’ll see. Cross your fingers for me and say some special prayers. Hopefully, I’ll be able to do it by this spring, if it’s meant to be.

Well Hello Ms Robyn! Thank you for taking the time to interview with me. As many people know you are one of my favorite housewives. You were also one of the first bravolebs to show support towards #alltruetea# and I really appreciate that as well.

 

Robyn: Hi and thank you for being patient with me. I’ve been extremely busy with moving and traveling with my basketball team. So, it’s good to finally sit down and chat with you. Yes, I am a fan of your blog and I’m happy to see your growth 😊

 

 

So here we are in season 6: Did you think you’ll be here season 6?

 

Robyn: Season 6 and I can’t believe it. We have indeed come a long way, but I’m loving and enjoying this jouney. I’m glad that others are loving and supporting our franchise as well. Many have been sleeping on us, so it’s good to finally see people are woke to us, lol.

 

Covid really affected many of us: I know seeing the first 2 episodes this season, you really struggled heavy with the pandemic: It also showed some tension with you and Juan because of it. Just wondering how are things with you and Juan now? Is a bravo wedding still in the works for you 2?  

 

Robyn: Covid really hit me hard, because it literally came from out of nowhere. Especially, with the depression. I didn’t think I would ever get out of it. It did cause a rough patch with us, but we got through it. Me and Juan have weathered tougher storms and that’s what makes us solid as a couple. We are able to deal with the good, bad and ugly with our relationship, but still come full circle after it all. Yes, there will still be a wedding. I want a destination wedding, but obviously COVID does put a damper on things. But yes, we are still getting married.

 

 

We also saw in the season premiere you and Juan are building your home: Are you all moved in yet?   

 

Robyn: We actually just settled into our home the end of July, and I’m currently living under boxes and in boxes. Still unpacking. Moving is the worse. We’re slowly getting settled in, but I’m very blessed and grateful to be living in our new home.

 

Reality TV producer Carlos King made a post saying that reality stars shouldn’t read comments from fans: How do you deal with the criticism or hate you receive from people?

 

Robyn: I 100% absolutely agree with that. It’s unfortunate because the negativity and toxicity from fans kind of ruins the experience for the people who are supportive. So, I really don’t read comments, or go searching for my name. I don’t follow certain pages or follow #rhop#. I really don’t want to invite that toxic energy into my life. I know it’s hard to avoid it sometimes, but I also don’t want it to change who I am on the show. I don’t want to filter or edit myself or just act a different way, due to feedback or backlash from fans. I’m not going to filter myself, when it comes to the things I say or do on the show. I want to be as authentic, natural and real as possible. This is a reality show. I know we’re making a tv show, but I want to deal with my castmates the same way I would deal with anyone in an everyday setting. Sorry for being long winded. But, I definitely feel some people on shows don’t want to receive backlash from fans, so they will say and do things to appeal to them, or will filter themselves and will avoid having difficult or uncomfortable conversations. It’s reality tv and we have to take the good and the bad with it, because it’s what we signed up for. 

 

We have 2 newbies Mia and Askale: What can you tell us about them? Will they be great additions this season?

 

Robyn: Mia and Askale are great additions to the show. Mia is a breath of fresh air, just because she’s so different. She’s so open and she just comes in sharing so much about her life. She also kind of came in ready to stir up some drama. Which I don’t know if that was authentic, or if it was a newbie making tv type of thing. But you know, hey it served it’s purpose.  Askale is just so sweet. I think I saw her a lot of times with her jaw open watching the drama. Like these women are crazy, lol. But Askale is really, really sweet. She brings a sweet perspective to the show and definitely tries to stand up for people, when necessary.

 

I know Gizelle is your green-eyed bandit/ soul sister, but who else on the show do you consider close to you?

 

Robyn: I am close to Candiace. We communicate a lot. I think we just get along well and we vibe.  I am close with Ashley, she’s been there since day 1 with us. So, I would say those 2, plus Gizelle are my closest castmates. I guess that’s kind of weird, considering since Candiace and Ashley don’t really like each other. But, hey that’s the beauty of our group. That we can all have our own relationships with one another, despite the different dynamics in the group, and the issues that other people might have with one another.

 

What’s your current relationship with Karen?

 

Robyn: I don’t really communicate with Karen.  I kind of keep her at an arms length. I could never trust or get a good read on her, because she’s so fake and phony. I’ll just say it’s non existent. I don’t have any ill will towards her, but it’s non existent.

 

What do you think of Nicki Minaj wanting to host the reunion?

 

Robyn: That would be so dope and great ratings for our show. Andy seems open to it. We’ll have to wait and see if it’s happens. Even if she just did a segment, that would be great too.

 

Tell us about your current or future projects you have going on that we can look forward to?

 

Robyn: My business embellished has really grown and it’s very successful. I’m trying to work on new styles, new fabrics and just new segments of that business. I am in the baby stages, but I am also planning to work with a designer in creating my athletic clothing line. So, we’ll see what happens there. But, I really want to expand embellished with adding more styles and variety because it has been so successful. And I really appreciate everyone’s support.

 

I Just finished watching recent episode of Encore, and I feel like the drama in the house was Aubrey vs Kiely and Twins vs 702 Sisters. The drama is always with those groups. Aubrey left because people weren’t doing what she wanted. I’ve always said in the beginning, she was the real villain lowkey. But, she was nice nasty, so it got overlooked.

With the twins: Their delivery can be hella harsh, but their message is usually on point. However, it’s not what you say, but how you say it. That is the twins main problem. They don’t have good communication skills and therefore the message goes over everyone’s head. Not to mention they are the ones who has put in the most work with the songs. So they are going to be the most vocal about it. They want it to go the way they heard it in their head. Same with how Pam did her song. The only ones who ever really have an issue with the twins are 702 sisters. Aubrey had her issues, but she wasn’t in the studio writing songs that fit her. When she could have been.

With reality TV, there is always a villain on these shows. So, I’m not surprised that it’s the twins. Because they are very vocal and straight forward. Everyone blames the twins in the house for everything going wrong. When in reality the main issues they have are were with the 702 sisters.

Speaking of the 702 sisters. Honestly, I’m starting to see they were the demise of their group. Irish and Misha want to feel included again or make up from what they lacked in their original group. However, they need to put in more effort. The 702 sisters (especially Misha) have a very poor attitude. They complain about wanting to be respected and wanting more lines, but are lazy with their dance and vocal training. They don’t show any initiative to better their craft. They also reject feedback and honest constructive criticism. Then they become offended when the other girls share that they do a bad job.  Twin literally quoted the quote or phrase correctly. “You are only as strong as the weakest link or weakest player” which is true. Misha and Irish are the weakest links. But for whatever reason they believe they are better than what they are. It doesn’t help when people aren’t telling them the truth. Everyone has said something negative about the 702 sisters, except maybe pam and Nivea. They all talk about them, but the Twins are the only ones who say what everyone else is thinking out loud.

Misha has been the main one to start drama with the twins because she felt like they were purposely leaving them out or trying to be over everything. when in reality they were just the only ones writing and producing. So the twins gave the studio to Misha to write and then Misha all of a sudden feels “sick”. Anytime the twins were getting in an argument it was because of Misha or Irish. They do all that complaining, but aren’t doing anything. All they’ve done is sit and complain about not being able to dance or have more lines. Well practice your skills and get to writing and performing.
I’m still sad Nivea left, but given everything she’s been through, I can understand she’s not with the unnecessary drama and negativity. Carlos King is a genius for this series…

Hello my truetea sippers! I wanted to share my thoughts on Wendy and Mia’s current mini feud..

First off, let me say Potomac is bringing it for season 6 indeed! I’m loving the storylines with everyone, so far. Mia and Askale were great additions as well. They are my favorite housewife show on Bravo.

I do like Mia as a housewife. I like how open and transparent she is with her life, for the most part. You can tell she has studied the franchise, because she came in guns blazing. It seems as if she was accepted by all the ladies, except Wendy. Wendy is not really feeling her at all. Which does happen. Sometimes, you just don’t vibe with people. They either rub you the wrong way, or they remind you of something and/or someone.

Even going back to the season premiere episode: when Karen asked Wendy at her lunch, if she can bring her friend Mia to her nude event, Wendy’s response was “ok nah”. When Mia arrived at her house, she thanked Wendy for inviting her to her home, and it seemed they were all off to a good start. Then, when they starting eating, and they all asked what Wendy had done. Wendy asked Mia what all did she have done, because it looked like she’s had alot of work done. Mia caught the shade and handled it accordingly. By the second episode at Karen’s house, when they clashed again, I was convinced that these 2 must have prior history, because I wasn’t understanding the hostility between them. It’s beyond catty, petty shade, etc. However, I was informed that they do not have any prior history.

So here’s what I think Wendy’s issue may be with Mia: I know some are screaming jealousy, and I don’t think that is it persay. However, I will say this, during these early episodes, I believe Wendy was under alot of stress, due to blogs putting out salacious rumors about Eddie cheating on her. I remember even calling out one blog in particular for putting these stories without receipts. Because fans were taking these stories and harassing castmates over it. I do think this may have carried to the show. I know some are probably thinking: “well what does Mia have to do with this”? I think is Mia is catching the heat for being a newbie. Since all newbies are hazed at some point or another.

I also think it does bother Wendy that Mia has had a overall better reception than her, from the viewers and the girls. Though Wendy is blackgirlmagic personified, beautiful, accomplished with a beautiful family: The viewers did not give Wendy a fair chance AT ALL! Because she was Candiace’s friend. Since many hated Candiace, therefore yall didn’t like or even wanted to get to know Wendy. I remember all the comments from blogs and fans. A few of the girls didn’t initially vibe with her either. As Karen said, “she wasn’t impressed” and even tried to get her kicked off the show. Her being accomplished and educated annoyed everyone. The fans were tired of hearing about her 4 degrees and the cast didn’t wanna her resume either. The viewers didn’t give her a fair chance, no matter what she said or did. I do believe this may have gotten to her.

Now here comes newbie Mia, who most of the fans instantly liked. Even when her pic was leaked that she was joining season 6. Most people said she was pretty and also said the GEB would instantly be jealous of her. She was Karen’s friend and instantly had her stamp of approval. Everyone liked her, her stories, her businesses, family, etc. Though she does tell some little white lies, she’s not vilified like how Wendy was. I think Wendy is comparing how she was treated and vs how Mia is treated, and could be lashing out at her over it. Also, on top of dealing with blogs lying and trying to ruin your family. That’s what I think it is. I don’t believe the loyalty theory. Because they’re all in this group, so they’re supposed to get to know each other. That would be Candiace questioning Wendy’s loyalty to her, since she and Karen are now becoming cozy. Especially with all the craziness that surrounded last season. I think Wendy is comparing treatments and reception and is lashing out for it. I will watch and see how this all plays out. But for now, this is my theory on this feud. But tell me what yall think 🥰

VERY Unpopular opinion here: Sutton has been overreacting these past few episodes, but I don’t think she is racist. Crystal is being passive agressive and condescending. She is nice nasty, so people aren’t seeing what she’s doing. Her smug and smirking, during last night’s episode shows she is playing on Sutton’s emotions and using it against her with the girls. She knows Sutton will always react to her, because she is fragile (rich white woman privilege). Dorit did the same to her last season with the “I’m a freak the f*** out scene” and Sutton had a mini breakdown. If I was Sutton, I wouldn’t even engage, because you are giving ammo to make you appear like a unstable person, imo.. #rhobh# https://www.instagram.com/p/CREi1bLH7MM/?utm_medium=share_sheet

Lol, it’s funny they all want Caroline back now. I know it’s because they want her to fight with Teresa. I don’t know why many think Caroline coming back to the show, will really scare or straighten up Teresa. There will be nothing Caroline can say or do, that will hurt Teresa. She’s been through it all. She’s the only housewife OG that has been through everything, good or bad on film, while several people (family and friends) use it for their own storylines against her. Despite all that she’s been through, she’s still standing. That’s why she’s the queen of rhonj franchise. Love her or hate her, but that’s the truth. So, honestly what is Caroline going to do? She’s not the moral authority here, especially when she’s supporting her brother in law in putting a hit out on her sister Dina and her husband “alledgedly”, IJS… Source @hollywoodlife #rhonj# https://www.instagram.com/p/CPa4jWPHGdc/?utm_medium=share_sheet

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I’m about to ruffle some feathers. But, I never saw Porsha and Simon dating. People marry and divorce all the time. However, Porsha and Falynn seemed to be friends. You’ve been in her home more than once. So there was some sort of relationship there. So, I can understand how Falynn would be upset by it. Many of us would be too, if we had a friend who dated our ex. Especially when they’re fresh out of their relationship from you.

I remember many calling Gizelle a whore and homewrecker for dating Sherman. Though her and Kyndal were never friends. But since Gizelle knew of Kyndal, many fans were saying she was violating girl code, etc. Yet, Porsha and Falynn were friends (or appeared to have a relationship) and fans are applauding this relationship. Just further proves that many use selective outrage with people they hate, and justifiable hypocrisy for their faves. Again, it’s their life, but please keep the same energy across with all of them. Well, season 14 will be interesting for filming. Hopefully Falynn will be able to tell her side of the story as well..